Even though a breakup with the love of your life can be unbelievably depressing, it may not actually mean that the relationship is over. You could still have a genuine shot at getting things back together, but there are some things you need to know. Your reactions following the break up are very important, and if you can avoid straining the relationship any further, then winning back your ex will be much easier than you may think.
I know it can feel impossible to maintain a cheerful attitude during the dark time after a breakup, but a lot of relationship experts believe that optimism and a confident disposition can go a long way. A confident attitude can help you in a number of ways.
First, it can show your ex that you're made of a bit tougher stuff than he may have thought at first. Letting yourself go to pieces just makes you look weak and desperate, but maintaining optimism and confidence paints quite a different picture. Instead, always put out an air that you have perfect control over your own life, and that you can deal with any mishaps you may encounter.
As well, it can also help to remind your ex of the things that he used to really respect and admire about you. Even the little things can make you look more special to him, and that special confidence you have can help bring back to mind things he may have forgotten or begun to take for granted.